What if.. The two most toxic words combined. What if. My whole life I’ve been wondering what if the situation was different, what If it all went the other way. I started recreating and making up new scenarios in my head of events that had not turned out the way I wanted to. Even my dreams started to consist of the theme “what if”. Dreams better then reality itself. Better then what really happened. Because of all the relationships that didn’t work out I always asked my self, what if? What if I was skinnier, what if I was smarter?…
I’m a bit neurotic (my head just does not stop spinning) but that swirl of ideas seems to make sense when I sit in front of my computer. It seems a bit impersonal – a woman behind a screen – but it’s my main time for reflection and peace. I’ve always been the kinda girl to compare myself to others, to always think that the grass is greener on the neighbours loan and always tore myself up for not being good enough. For not having things others had, for not being as smart, as beautiful, as rich. For not…
Hello lovelies! It’s almost the season and we are already jolly. Festive holiday shopping spree has already begun and we are all already planning our New years outfits and Christmas eve dresses. Too early? Never! Being a little overdressed is never the issue when it comes to holiday dressing. These season attires are all about stepping out of your comfort zone and standing out from the crowd. It is the time when everybody pulls out all the shiny dresses and festive sweaters with all sorts of sequence and colours. Queue the bows and glitter to match all the red that…
When was the last time you did something for yourself and not for the ‘gram? When was the last time you went to a cafe and it was not for posting purposes, but because you wanted peace and quiet as you enjoyed that cup of coffee? When was the last time you wore an outfit that you actually love, without social media telling you what to wear? As a social media gal, I admit to being guilty doing as such. However let’s not forget that before I am a blogger, influencer, social media enthusiast or any other expression they have…
O Me! O Life! Oh me! Oh life! of the questions of these recurring, Of the endless trains of the faithless, of cities fill’d with the foolish, Of myself forever reproaching myself, (for who more foolish than I, and who more faithless?) Of eyes that vainly crave the light, of the objects mean, of the struggle ever renew’d, Of the poor results of all, of the plodding and sordid crowds I see around me, Of the empty and useless years of the rest, with the rest me intertwined, The question, O me! so sad, recurring—What good amid these, O…
